Losing a loved one is never easy, no matter how many people you've lost in your lifetime. There is a sense of sadness and heartache that they are no longer in this world, experiencing life. But, at some point in all the sadness that comes with death, it's important to gain some perspective about the situation.
It's important to take stock of their life experiences (especially near the end), and try to think of their thoughts/perspective rather than your own. I know my Grampa is at peace. I know that he's been lonely since Gramma passed 7 years ago, I know he didn't like feeling/being sick, and I know he had lost the desire to do many things he enjoyed over the years. So, although we are sad (temporarily), we should think of Grampa, because I am sure he is finally happy and content.
Mr. J is an excellent counsellor - he helps me look at the positive; to remember the wonderful times I had with my Grampa; to celebrate those times; and to feel privileged that I got to know, love, share my life with him for 32 years.
Although I didn't see him much over the past few years, I will miss him dearly. But I am happy for him because he's been reunited with Gramma in heaven.
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Woot
After reading her post, I would say I was frequenting Woot! often. Now, pretty much everyday. Woot! is interesting, but not as much as shirt.woot!.
When you are in a relationship with someone, it's inevitable that some of their likes/preferences begin to rub off on you. Mr. J loves funny t-shirts. So after finding out about woot! and shirt.woot! I gave him the heads up.
Now you are probably wondering, 'what the hell is this post about' or 'get to the damn point'...'this post sucks.'
Well, as usual, I got pretty spoiled at my birthday, and have 4 new favourite t-shirts to show for it. I love them. Although silly, they are right up my alley.
Easy Optimism
Donut Panic!
One Cheer for Broccoli
Friends Forever
When you are in a relationship with someone, it's inevitable that some of their likes/preferences begin to rub off on you. Mr. J loves funny t-shirts. So after finding out about woot! and shirt.woot! I gave him the heads up.
Now you are probably wondering, 'what the hell is this post about' or 'get to the damn point'...'this post sucks.'
Well, as usual, I got pretty spoiled at my birthday, and have 4 new favourite t-shirts to show for it. I love them. Although silly, they are right up my alley.
Easy Optimism
Donut Panic!
One Cheer for Broccoli
Friends Forever
Saturday, January 17, 2009
Birthday Reflections
Now I realize I've said this & that in recent years, but TODAY will go down in history as being my warmest birthday ever..of course, until there is a day warmer..but until then, wahoo!!!! I can't believe it's going to be +11 today. Not only is it NOT -40, it's actually in the positives and double digits.
Reflecting on my final comments of last years post, my 31st year was great, and full of challenges as usual. The job is fantastic, and I still love going there everyday. The relationship is going strong, and we survived the challenges brought on by our new living arrangement, and are enjoying married life.
I travelled to San Jose and Jamaica this year, and cut back on the trips to Stoon. We took a mini-holiday to Canmore at New Years, and are looking forward to Dallas next month.
As for today, the first day of my 32nd year, I was surprised with a scavenger hunt to find my gifts. Once again, I got spoiled - funny t-shirts, video camera, Nickelback CD, gift cards, and more.
For the rest of the day, I plan on enjoying it with my hubby, relaxing with a massage in the late afternoon, and finishing the day off with our slo-pitch team's Annual Poker Party. It's going to be the perfect way to spend my birthday.
As for the rest of the days this coming year...I forsee big changes and new beginnings. I'm extremely excited.
Reflecting on my final comments of last years post, my 31st year was great, and full of challenges as usual. The job is fantastic, and I still love going there everyday. The relationship is going strong, and we survived the challenges brought on by our new living arrangement, and are enjoying married life.
I travelled to San Jose and Jamaica this year, and cut back on the trips to Stoon. We took a mini-holiday to Canmore at New Years, and are looking forward to Dallas next month.
As for today, the first day of my 32nd year, I was surprised with a scavenger hunt to find my gifts. Once again, I got spoiled - funny t-shirts, video camera, Nickelback CD, gift cards, and more.
For the rest of the day, I plan on enjoying it with my hubby, relaxing with a massage in the late afternoon, and finishing the day off with our slo-pitch team's Annual Poker Party. It's going to be the perfect way to spend my birthday.
As for the rest of the days this coming year...I forsee big changes and new beginnings. I'm extremely excited.
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
Feeling better?
Alright Sinus Cold, I think it's about time for you to leave. You've infested my sinuses for long enough, and I am fairly sick and tired of blowing my nose, scratching my eyes, and trying to soothe the pain you cause in my head.
I realize that my body has not co-operated over the last couple of weeks by not sleeping, but come on, enough is enough. I am sick of being sick, and I am sick of not sleeping, so let's co-operate here and get on with the feeling better.
I seem to be feeling better this evening, but my body may have other things in mind this evening and not want to fall asleep - AGAIN - and knowing your past behaviour, you'll decide tomorrow morning that you want to hang around for a couple more days. I am sure you've gotten pretty comfortable in there, but I think it's time for you to move on. I think it would be best for you decide to leave on your own, because it's not going to be very nice when Antibiotic arrives tomorrow after my visit to the Dr. You've heard the stories from your cousins, and I'm sure you don't want to end up like them, do you?
So let's just call a truce. You've had a good run, and me, well, I don't think I got anything out of this deal. So why don't you just move on to the next victim.
Thank you!
I realize that my body has not co-operated over the last couple of weeks by not sleeping, but come on, enough is enough. I am sick of being sick, and I am sick of not sleeping, so let's co-operate here and get on with the feeling better.
I seem to be feeling better this evening, but my body may have other things in mind this evening and not want to fall asleep - AGAIN - and knowing your past behaviour, you'll decide tomorrow morning that you want to hang around for a couple more days. I am sure you've gotten pretty comfortable in there, but I think it's time for you to move on. I think it would be best for you decide to leave on your own, because it's not going to be very nice when Antibiotic arrives tomorrow after my visit to the Dr. You've heard the stories from your cousins, and I'm sure you don't want to end up like them, do you?
So let's just call a truce. You've had a good run, and me, well, I don't think I got anything out of this deal. So why don't you just move on to the next victim.
Thank you!
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