Losing a loved one is never easy, no matter how many people you've lost in your lifetime. There is a sense of sadness and heartache that they are no longer in this world, experiencing life. But, at some point in all the sadness that comes with death, it's important to gain some perspective about the situation.
It's important to take stock of their life experiences (especially near the end), and try to think of their thoughts/perspective rather than your own. I know my Grampa is at peace. I know that he's been lonely since Gramma passed 7 years ago, I know he didn't like feeling/being sick, and I know he had lost the desire to do many things he enjoyed over the years. So, although we are sad (temporarily), we should think of Grampa, because I am sure he is finally happy and content.
Mr. J is an excellent counsellor - he helps me look at the positive; to remember the wonderful times I had with my Grampa; to celebrate those times; and to feel privileged that I got to know, love, share my life with him for 32 years.
Although I didn't see him much over the past few years, I will miss him dearly. But I am happy for him because he's been reunited with Gramma in heaven.
4 comments:
I'm really sorry to hear about your Grampa. Randy and I are thinking of you.
Thank you for your warm thoughts.
There still is love all around you. Plus those that have passed still look down on you and bring you love when you need it most.
Your granddad will always be with you. In some ways, much closer, and in other ways more difficult to hear. Every time you tell a story about him, he is there with you, and with your family.
Blessings.
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